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The straight guys are coached and clothed in the very stuff required of fashionable, cool gay men worthy of the modifiergay. I'm not only a separatist from commercialized gay culture, I also don't want to be a part of the gay social scene, a big part of which is known as the circuit. No matter the theme, the result is the same: a lot of gay men, wearing very little clothing. The best definition of the circuit comes from Circuit Noize.com, the website for the magazine, (yes with a Z), that regularly chronicleswhat else?
The implied message is that gay men had better buy this stuff lest they fail to be the kind of gay that is regaled by the culture at large. This is a bunch of thematic parties (from black leather to Sesame Street fetishes) in major U. the circuit: The Circuit is a series of gay dance parties that are held around the world.
More than a few of those friendsthinking that I am a catch so why am I single? It's easy for me to tell when people are setting me up with an OGF, rather than with their CGF (coolest gay friend), HGF (hottest), or SGF (smartest).
Even more problematic, the show is organized around the fact that a person's sexuality dictates their ability to be fashionable. And I need to know that my friend's OGF is a similar Gay Separatist, otherwise the date might as well be between a bulldozer and someone chained to the blade.
Then they tell me they work with this great guy, who's interested in going out, and the momentum builds, and next thing I know they give me the guy's email address.
The problem is people relate on a superficial level at work.
You find that self-expression is fine, but only within a strict code of physical and psychological parameters.
For example, the homepage prominently features a significant section entitled Free Boys Pix.These boys are grown men, and they all look essentially the same, all plate-like pectorals thrust outward in perfect correlation to a desperate attempt at grotesque masculinity.