Dating site success
The slower method is about building trust and rapport.The best way to do this is to suggest moving away from the dating site to a more personal method of communication.Many online dating articles and products will try to convince you that what you write for your first message is the most important skill you will ever learn. For sure, what you write in your opening message and in your profile will dictate a lot of your success with online dating, but the single biggest factor is how someone responds to your profile picture. While your opening message’s content will determine if someone clicks through to your profile, it’s that little thumbnail image that will determine if they open the message at all.This isn’t a universal rule but take women as an example—the more messages a woman receives each day, the pickier she is going to be.Unfortunately this will only come with practice, and the more messages you send, the better you will get.Online dating is exactly the same as meeting someone the conventional way—it’s purely a numbers game and the quicker you realise this, the better.Have you ever deleted an opening message based solely on the thumbnail image?I think everyone has at some point, and imagine how often you would do this if you received 20-50 a day instead of 1 or 2 a week. Most attractive women don’t even open all of their messages simply because they can’t be bothered to sift through them all.
Research has also shown that the best time to send a message is on a Sunday afternoon.
That is the time when people are generally bored and are at their computers searching for a bit of companionship after their failed attempts at meeting someone the previous night.