Dating someone has attempted suicide

03-Oct-2020 01:53

You can always go back to having a relationship - friendship, confidant, lover - with this person; but to base that relationship on her breaking trust so badly as to threaten suicide is flawed. Us females can be slightly over dramatic but this is going too far.

You must have another basis than that if you wish that relationship to be honest and constructive for either of you. From a purely knowing nothing about her other than this stance, perhaps look in to borderline personality disorder.

I wish I could tell you more and make you feel better but this is all I can offer you right now. And don't start blaming yourself or any other crazy shit. After all, in the hard-knocks school of suicidality, people tend to say ' I wish he'd told me', or ' I'm glad he told me he was thinking about this', rather than 'thank fuck this came out of the blue'. It is entirely reasonable for you to ask her not to do this again, for her to arrange a crisis plan that doesn't involve you, and that you think a sexual relationship while she's in the space is unwise. I can't imagine someone who really wanted to die making sure to let you know the toxic dosage levels and so on.

My point being - people who are suicidal should be saying so, and people listening should be paying attention. Also, she does have a relative - she trusted the relative, clearly, to take her to a hospital. My bet, she won't have anything in her system other than maybe a few bottles of wine and some chocolate.

Maybe she is indeed looking for attention, but she needs professional help if she feels that attempting/risking suicide is the way to go.

You need to get her a good doctor, tell her you care about her, but that you can't continue the relationship based on what it is now.

Also, I recommend taking this as a warning sign and moving on with your life without her.

Anyone who would try to hurt you that much doesn't deserve you.

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