Lots of fish and dating
Basically this is full of ordinary women who would struggle to get a date in the real world so they join this pof lark and boom they start to think they are a diva with all the attention they get.
I think it must like a kid at Christmas for them and they revel in the attention they've never had and start believing they're an actual catch You only have to see how many of them in their late 30s have put their longest relationship is under a year that's a huge red flag. There's a reason no man wants them Definitely much better females in the real world.
You want to get strict about your photo policies, that's fine, but I'm pretty sure only applying it to women is discrimination. Oh and here's some advice - if you want to weed out men that aren't serious or even literate (setting these parameters might leave you with a dozen or so males to choose from on the entire site) - filter your mail so they have to write 300 characters minimum for the message to go through at all.
You might get less mail (these lazy men now treat ALL dating sites like Tinder...swiping and liking with zero effort put into messaging...character requirement or not), but you'll find that quality matters over quantity - although quite a few dullards wasted their word count by complaining about having to do something as outlandish as write an entire paragraph (oh the humanity! I guess anything more than 160 characters hurts some people's heads these days....
cringe attempts at 'poetry', which amounted to nothing more than word salad (well, 'graphorrhea' - if you want to get technical), and some copy paste pick-up line drivel. I notice there's a lot of bitter reviewers here bashing women for not answering their messages. Absolutely insane I will add One woman on her headline said she is tired of men offering to pay her bills.
More often than not, we're bombarded with too many (duh) - it gets overwhelming. Maybe you scare (bully) the women you perceive as conventionally 'hot' off sites like these by constantly accusing them of being 'bots'. If we're not attractive enough - you dehumanize us. If that is true the desperate men should hang the heads in shame Always issues trying to log into this site.
I swear within 10 minutes of browsing I saw tons women on POF from my last time in 2015 with the exact same photos as then.
No questions asked (they could have at least asked me to verify my identity...ridiculous, but still). I didn't know that being in shape or looking 'too young' for your age was a bad thing, but apparently it is now (on the internet anyway), because it means you're a shady character. No point wasting my time I did see this profile before I logged out which made me laugh She was below 5 foot so basically a midget and had a menial job in a care home and and she couldn't spell The best bit of the profile Looking for my genuine guy Blue eyes are my 100% dream but if your (sic) personality is 10/10 then eye colour doesn't matter ( how gracious of her) Personalty (sic) Tanned Must have hair A few tats Nice teeth Looks after themselves This from a 4 foot munchkin who has the brain capacity of a turnip and is quite happy to toss a guy aside if his eyes aren't the right colour. No I'm sorry I'm not interested as you don't have the right colour eyes.
They either got issues or nobody offline wants them. Ain't worth the aggravation of signing up to chase after women you wouldn't give a 2nd glance at if you saw in a bar Guys, don't waste your time with these mostly ugly "princesses" who think they are Goddesses.
They are looking for a superman offering 200 lbs of fat and IQ about 60-70 in return.
If you want to find a true lady, try https://j4l.com/402006 you will see that these girls are hot, smart, feminine. They come from different culture, more family-oriented. I think this is the kind of ladies that most of our men deserve! Apparently plenty of feces updated their tos - only WOMEN' S photos are rejected if we use filters of any kind. I had five photos - and I was very much 'me' and filter free in my main one (your main pic should be clear and unmanipulated, fair enough), but they IMMEDIATELY (within seconds!
) took down two others I posted - one with bunny ears and another for no valid reason whatsoever, telling me they did not meet their new extreme requirements (you must post only clear face and body shots). Oh but what do I see - ah yes, TONS of MEN using filters (some e.g.
Lots of fake profiles, sociopaths and an overall nonreputable site.