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The strength of my friend's profile itself as the constant)The most important thing is to talk more about her than yourself.
Become interested in her as a person (actually interested, and not just to get in her pants because we can smell that from a mile away) and you'll find that the rest of it comes together nicely. PS: Don't forget to have some good pictures of yourself that friends take (avoid selfies if possible) as well as an engaging profile yourself.
People love to talk about themselves, and when people are shown genuine interest in who they are, generally they respond with genuine interest in who you are too. And yet it will work if you just say that to a girl in real life.
Funny that Honestly, online dating is an entire world of bullshit in my opinion.
Thanks for the tip on the 3-1 ratio of questioning.
I avoided this at first to steer clear of the "interview" tactic but I guess online is a different ball game.
When if/when she responds continue the conversation by asking 2 or 3 questions about herself, for every one question she asks about you.
I can tell you right now "Hi there, how are you" is going to get you absolutely nowhere.
To get a response you must be engaged and ask a question that makes the woman think.
The answers are always so short and feel rushed which alwayss makes it feel like you have to lead or the convo will end quickly. If you do you'll be one in a billion more messages that is referencing how she looks. Find a single thing to talk about, either in the body of their profile or in one of their pictures. Then end with an invitation to get coffee some time. " This gives me something to respond to an a potential conversation and also shows you took the time to read my profile as opposed to a stock message you send to everyone.
Write an open ended statement about something you relate written in their profile and ask a question about that or something else that stands out to you. Don't make it any longer than a few shorts sentences. That is nice in theory, but in practice the response rate from women even on well crafted messages that reference something specific in their profile is pretty low.
Yes I know this can be time consuming, which is why I suggest to guys that they should go for quality of potential matches rather than quantity.